Points of View

Shall We Talk About Privilege?

Accepting and recognising our own privilege


Hold on to your hats ladies and gents we are in for a ride today.  I am delighted to have been asked to contribute to A Life Loved Blog and am diving in head first and…

Drummer Grrrls

Because drumming is not just reserved for boys


In 1992, I was sixteen years old. The alternative rock subgenre ‘grunge’ had emerged in Seattle, Washington during the mid-late eighties and had finally made its way across the water. I was ready to embrace it….

The Plight of the Smug Married

Stop preaching to and patronising your single friends


I would like to discuss the plight of the ‘Smug Married’ – a moniker made popular by Bridget Jones in the mid nineties, there are no people less cool, less popular, or more annoying, than your Smug…


What the f**k is it all about?


Considered extremely uncouth by many, swearing seems to serve a different purpose to different people. I’m putting it out there that I love a good swear – somehow the words, that often sound as angry as…

The Cult of Busy-ness

A call for calm in our overwhelmed lives


As a lawyer, I measure my days in six minute intervals. The little timer at the corner of my screen currently tells me I’ve spent 18 minutes responding to emails, 36 minutes on a conference call discussing…

Votes for Women!

Women’s rights & equality


It’s easy to forget some of the privileges that we have in modern day society – having a political voice being one of them. Today marks 100 years since women over the age of 30 were…

Women and Tattoos

Judgement, art, beauty and a very brief history


Once considered the lowest form of ‘art’, associated with criminality, carnival freaks and sexual promiscuity, women with tattoos have had a bit of a rough ride over the last couple of centuries. The stigma attached to…

Post-Wedding Project Brain

Or, how not to beat the post-wedding blues


I had been warned that there would be a bit of a comedown after the wedding. Like the average bride, wedding planning had probably been the single biggest occupier of my mind for over a year. And…

How to be an Ally to Disabled People

Disability and equality


During the last couple of years, the way we talk about gender, race and diversity has changed profoundly. It truly feels like something has shifted, and voices that have been absent from public discussions can now…